I got a comment from a lady today telling me her advice is to not move in with someone unless your married, as you can see I have a completely different view on that. When I first read it, I didn't let it hit me, but know that I have thought about, it's hit harder than I should let it, but lets clear somethings up first...
-I was suppose to move into my sisters, but her husband got orders to Washington therefore, I will not be living with her.
-I'm still going to college and getting my education, it's better than running off and getting married (then my parents wouldn't pay for college). I'm sorry I want my education first.
- I think it's better to get to know the person and how they live before you get married. I think you learn a lot about someone when you live with them. I know it's not the "ideal" thing to do in society today, but it's what I want. Society is so judgemental these days. But whatever I'm doing what I want and what is best for me and my boyfriend.
--I am so happy that I'm going to be moving in with him. I'm completely in love and this my decision and my family and friends are backing me up 100%.
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You know, in my opinion, you have to do what is best for you. Strangers who read your blog do not know you personally and have no idea what your life is like. I've already learned that some comments you get you'll have to take with a grain of salt and go on.
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thank you so much.
ReplyDeleteI know I need to take it with a grain of salt, but for some reason it hit me hard, but it's okay, I'm doing best for me.